Update
Well, it appears that I have almost completely abandoned this for facebook, but I noticed that a few people were finding this site looking for the wedding website (www.chaitonmurraywedding.com). So I thought I'd better put the link up.
If you didn't by any chance notice the little tiny slip of paper that had the link to the website and the directions to RSVP there, it probably got lost in the envelope. You wouldn't be the only one who didn't notice it.
I think we're close to 90 people RSVP'ing already, it's going to be a full wedding! (and fun!)